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She discovered herself alone in a brand new nation, engaged on a short lived visa and pregnant.

Then, Dixie Marie Judilla says she was blessed by a rare act of kindness in Claresholm, about 130 km due south of Calgary.

In 2008, Judilla left her small city within the Philippines for an additional small city within the Canadian prairies. She arrived in Claresholm throughout a December blizzard.

Days later, she was making Blizzards on the native Dairy Queen. 

A number of years handed and cash was tight. Then, Judilla came upon she was going to be a mother. A single mother. And he or she was contemplating very troublesome selections.

“As a result of as a overseas employee, you are not entitled, you haven’t any advantages and nannies are costly. So I simply cried and mentioned, ‘I believe after I give beginning I am going to simply take my son again residence [to the Philippines] and let my dad and mom handle him. After which I am going to simply come again [to Claresholm] to earn cash,'” mentioned Judilla.

However Judilla’s son, Dominic — who turns 10 this yr — was in a position to keep in Canada along with his mom, because of a neighborhood couple.

WATCH | What it meant to Dixie Marie Judilla when two near-strangers helped her son

Dixie Marie Judilla says she was blessed by a rare act of kindness when she discovered herself alone, engaged on a short lived visa and pregnant. 2:01

Gerd and Elaine Schmidt have been empty nesters and retired. Gerd met Judilla on the Claresholm Dairy Queen, the place he was an everyday buyer.

Whereas Gerd drank his espresso and browse his paper, he’d typically strike up conversations with Judilla. When he realized of her plans to ship her child again to the Philippines, he and Elaine stepped in to assist.  

After child Dominic was born, they provided to look at him, permitting Judilla to remain in Canada, preserve her job and construct the longer term she hoped for.

“Staying in Claresholm, I met these good individuals with an excellent coronary heart, Canadians who helped me … handle my son without cost with out even asking for something in return,” Judilla mentioned.

Dixie Marie Judilla and her son, Dominic, who’s now 10. (Submitted by Dixie Marie Judilla)

13 years and lots of snowstorms later, Judilla has no plans to go away rural Alberta. She has gained her Canadian everlasting residency and now works at an Alberta Well being Companies long-term care facility.

“That is my city. That is my residence,” she mentioned.

‘Canadian grandma’

Whereas the vast majority of newcomers to Canada settle in Vancouver, Toronto, Montreal and Calgary, the place there are extra established immigrant communities, federal applications just like the Rural and Northern Immigration Pilot are serving to fill jobs outdoors the massive cities. 

Roughly 25,000 immigrants have come to small cities (with populations lower than 10,000) and rural areas in Alberta over the previous decade, Statistics Canada estimates. 

That is my city. That is my residence.– Dixie Marie Judilla, speaking about Claresholm

Greater than 15,000 Filipinos immigrated to small Alberta communities between 2010 and 2016, based on essentially the most latest statistics.

Elaine Schmidt mentioned her husband noticed himself as a mentor to Judilla, and associated to her as a result of he was additionally an immigrant.

Gerd Schmidt was born in Berlin, Germany, and moved to Saskatchewan in 1955, the place he labored on a farm. He and Elaine have been married in 1968 and moved to Claresholm within the Seventies.

“[Gerd] did not have any household in Canada, both,” mentioned Elain Schmidt. “He mentioned when he came to visit, individuals helped him, so he wished to assist someone, too.”

Dixie Marie Judilla says Gerd Schmidt handled Dominic like a grandson. (Submitted by Dixie Marie Judilla)

The connection between Judilla and the Schmidts lasted for years, with visits, meals and holidays spent collectively.

When Gerd handed away in 2017, Dixie Marie and Dominic have been talked about in his obituary. Despite the fact that Elaine later moved to Lethbridge to be nearer to her grownup youngsters, she nonetheless stays in contact with the Judillas.

Earlier than the pandemic, Dixie Marie would drive from Claresholm to Lethbridge so Elaine might go to with Dominic.

“I all the time inform him … I am your Canadian grandma,” she mentioned.

By way of the Judillas, Schmidt mentioned she and her husband met many members of the Filipino neighborhood in and round Claresholm, and developed completely happy relationships. 

Benefits to small-town residing

When Susan and Roy Hernando left the Philippines and immigrated to Canada within the late ’90s, their first cease was Toronto. However they solely stayed two years earlier than shifting to Yellowknife, after which to a a lot smaller neighborhood: Stettler, Alta.

“I did not even know the place Stettler was. All I knew was that it was in Alberta,” laughed Susan, who was interviewed for her job through Skype.

She’s now the director of economic companies for the Clearview College Board. Roy Hernando teaches Grade 5 with the Siksika First Nation, the place he mentioned he is all the time felt “very welcomed.” 

Isaac, Rosanne, Susan, Roy and Schubert Hernando dwell in Stettler, Alta. (Submitted by Susan Hernando)

The Hernandos are lively members of their native church and have carried out at Stettler’s annual music pageant. Susan Hernando mentioned small cities are an ideal place for newcomers to place down roots.

“Salaries are the identical. In the event you work at Tim Hortons [in Stettler], it is the identical wage when you work at Tim Hortons in Calgary,” she mentioned. “And value of residing is means, means, means cheaper. And there is a variety of free stuff. Free greens in the summertime and typically there’s even free beef! And free chickens [from nearby farms]!”

The Hernandos mentioned there have been round 40 Filipinos in Stettler once they arrived in 2009. Right this moment, there are about 150.

Susan Hernando, proper, choosing corn with Edith Cole on her farm in Brownfield, Alta. Hernando says yearly, Cole offers out free greens to the native Filipino neighborhood. (Submitted by Susan Hernando)

And Susan Hernando mentioned she is aware of most of them.

“In a giant metropolis, when you see a Filipino, you smile however you do not often discuss to them. However in a small city … you’d instantly have the urge to speak to them.”

Susan, who prides herself on being a “massive sister ” to all the brand new Filipinos on the town, mentioned individuals in her small city make an effort to welcome newcomers with a smile, a pleasant greeting — and typically, a pair ears of corn.

LISTEN | Filipinos embrace life in small-town Alberta:

CBC Information Calgary8:55Q&A: Filipinos embrace life in small city Alberta

Dixie Marie Judillo and Susan Hernando discuss to the CBC’s Danielle Nerman about discovering pleasure, friendship and kindness in Alberta’s small cities. 8:55

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